It’s Christmas Letter Time! Part I


I love to write … am never at a loss for words.  Until, I start to write a Christmas letter.  Then, sometimes I just have a mental block.  I can’t think of what to say.  So, when that happens the less “wordy” writer in the family, Hubby, steps in.  He write a first draft, and then I finish it off from there.  Teamwork at its best!

I wrote the following ideas about Christmas Letters two years ago, so I thought I’d share it again.

A Christmas Letter — To Do or Not To Do — That Is The Question!

It is the time of year when we have to start thinking about any Christmas preparations that take long-range planning.  (Make the Springerle’s NOW!!)

One of the first things that I always do is write a Christmas letter and update my Christmas card list.  I send the letter to friends and family we don’t see often (who generally live out of town), and Christmas cards to friends and family who already know all the stuff in the Christmas letter and to in-town acquaintances.

I have a mental template for our  yearly Christmas letter that I adhere to pretty closely:  A welcoming of the reason for the season, a couple paragraphs about what Hubby and I are doing, a couple paragraphs about Gunny and his family, a couple paragraphs about DD and her family, and a closing that honors Christ’s birth.

I work very hard to keep the letter to one page (one-side).  I add a handwritten note on each one I send that is specific to that person/family.

Now, to me, this is a pretty good way to keep in touch, especially with people we only hear from this one time of year.  We receive many Christmas letters in return, some that have obviously been written just as a reply to OUR letter, but that’s all right, because the whole point is to just do a little re-connecting.  And, if the letter they receive from us makes them want to let us know what THEY are doing — perfect!!

I never know what to think when I hear people rant about how awful they consider Christmas letters.  The objections I hear are that they are too long and they are “braggy”.   Well, would they rather not hear from that family at all?  As I said earlier, sometimes a Christmas letter is the ONLY time you hear from someone.  I have to admit that if one we receive is realllly long, I do sometimes read just the beginning of each paragraph, unless something just catches my interest, but I’m STILL glad that I heard from that family!  Just from skimming the letter I know alot more about what is going on with them than I would if I DIDN’T get the letter!

As for bragging — in my mind — bragging is window dressing.  The person has taken the things that have happened in their lives and shared only the highlights and presented those in a really “dressed up” way, but if you can make yourself look past the bragging, you are still getting information that tells you what is going on with them!

So, in conclusion, as I’m sure you have already figured out — I am ALL FOR Christmas letters.  I love getting them, even the lonnnnng ones and the “braggy” ones, because I’m glad they thought of us and wanted to stay in touch with us.

May any Christmas letter you receive be seen as a little “gift” from the sender — some more “pleasingly wrapped” than others, but all “gifts.”

Tomorrow:  It’s Christmas Letter Time! Part II

4 Responses to It’s Christmas Letter Time! Part I

  1. C says:

    I love them, too. As for “bragging,” I believe we all have troubles, but the Christmas letter is for being “uplifting,” so I don’t object to a chipper attitude in one. Oh, that I were organized enough to do one and actually send it out!! C

  2. I don’t know many people who write them, probably because we stay in touch intermittently through email (etc) anyway – but when I do get one, I’m always pleased to have a little extra information.

    Now, if only everyone would start a blog…….

  3. Hilary says:

    You’re quite right about the bragging parts. Upon reflection, we brag fairly consistently .. each time we post to our blogs. We talk about family, post our photos, show our writing style… showcase our creativity. At year’s end, some folks just combine those most colourful events and put them out there for others to read. Thanks for this insight, Sandra. I still think these newsletters are a tad braggy, but now I see that so are the rest of us bloggers on a regular basis. 😉

  4. Sandra says:

    C — It’s funny but I think just about every year about NOT sending out a letter, but it’s become such a tradition that I have trouble letting go of it. And I really DO enjoy the ones we receive. And, you’re right, the attitude should be uplifting — rather than like reality TV! 🙂

    Rachel — E-mail and blogging (and facebook) really have become our new ways to communicate, haven’t they. If only all the members of my family and friends blogged!

    Hilary — Hmmmm. Now that I think about it, my blog does sometimes come awfully close to being like one of those “grandma’s brag book”s! But, I so love it that I’m not going to dwell on that, and I’ll just keep telling myself I’m doing it for future generations! (That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.) 🙂

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